How do you get a child to stop smarting back?

Almost all children at some point in time will start smarting back. There are a few things that can be done to prevent this from either starting or continuing. Some parts are harder than others.

First off, you need to look at how you present yourself. Ask yourself these questions: Does the child see you talking back to others or nagging about things? Are other children affecting this behavior directly (IE, do any of his/her friends talk back and get away with it)? Do they think it is a game? Are you showing yourself as 'weak' to them?

A child will mimick actions and behaviors displayed around them. If they see you doing this, they will think it is okay to do as well. Children are highly impressionable, and one should constantly be aware of the behaviors they are observing. If they have a 'mouthy' friend, they will most likely latch onto this behavior, thinking it is fun or acceptable.

When handling a mouthy child, you should keep your temper in check. Do not just to anger or harsh punishment. Instead, sit them down and explain that this is not an okay thing to do. Children are smarter than most give credit for. You need to cement your place as the adult here. Being too leinant will only allow them to feel they have the upper hand, the power, in this. Their actions will only get worse.